Mirror agony aunt Coleen Nolan has recommendation for a mortified mum who flew off the deal with when she found her 15-year-old watching porn
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I discovered my 15-year-old son watching porn the opposite night time and didn’t deal with the state of affairs too effectively.
I mainly screamed at him and he screamed again at me to get out. Things have been actually awkward since.
I’m actually anti-porn and particularly frightened about youngsters watching it, as I feel it is going to give them a really skewed view of intercourse.
I would like my son to develop up respecting girls and with the ability to kind wholesome, loving relationships, so seeing him watching porn has actually freaked me out.
Do you’ve any recommendation on how I can discuss to him?
Well, begin by speaking to him as a substitute of screaming at him. He’s no completely different to nearly all of teenage boys – his hormones are raging and he’s fascinated with intercourse plenty of the time.
The distinction nowadays is that porn is so accessible through the web and it’s very simple for it to turn into addictive.
We all know porn is an unrealistic view of intercourse, however I feel you’ll be able to discuss to your son about that, and likewise discuss to him about respect for girls.
You can clarify what your worries are round pornography and even present him some analysis.
He most likely feels very embarrassed and awkward, so take the upper floor right here and have a dialogue with him with out making him really feel that he’s finished one thing actually dangerous.